mother's heart

     I was growing learning that love is easy and hard in many different ways.  I was told by my parents and grandparents that in order to get through the hard part of love is to have courage and patient.  So, here i am working through the hard part.  I have four children ages 5,3,2, and 3 months.  Parenting is not easy.  Its the hardest thing in life. 

     My husband i don't agree on a lot of things regarding disciplining our children.  He will let them get away with almost everything.  His excuses, they are still young.  Well i don't buy his excuses.  Thanks god  our five year old daughter is really matured for her age and really understand.  And that is because i keep talking to her everyday, seven days a week, thirty to thirty one days a month. 

     Everyday in my free times or before she goes to bed we will have a one on one chat.  We will talk about everything.  What is good and bad, right or wrong, what are my expectations and her expectations as well.  Sometimes she asked me how come daddy and i don't talk about stuff like we did?  I just told her the truth.  Well daddy think you're still in the baby zone.  As a result of all the hard works, she is well mannered, discipline, and more.  She even help me sometimes talking to her three years old sister and her two years old brother.  I am so proud of her and couldn't ask for more. 

     Right now, if the dad is home alone with the four children, the house will turn upside down. He will hand them right over as soon as i walked into the door.  If I'm alone with the kids everything is under control.  The kids knows their limit and knows what to do.  Especially our five and three years old daughters.  Right now we are on the mission on their two years old brother.  Oh yeah, its hard hard work.  But, just be patient, consistence and you will reap the hard work you done. 

     Disciplining kids when they are young is not too early and they are not too young.  Secondly, children learn from their parents.  Every move you make they learned that move.  Lastly but not the least, childrens are the most wonderful gift of all and they are their mother's heart.  Mothers knows best.